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Does a Handle Encourage or Discourage Views of a Profile  

debutanteBaltimr

8/27/2010 3:26 am

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8/29/2010 3:06 am

I have a rather silly handle. I imagine bit discourages any serious women who might otherwise be curious enough to view mine. Yet when I uploaded new pics I got 76 views last week. What do YOU think?
Si8lly handles get silly viewres
Unique handles grab attention
Emphasize your good qualities only in a handle
Handles don't count for much
A Handle is first impression. Blow it here and you're done
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HuzatKrazyLONG -edMayne???
Poetdancerin
8920 posts 

8/27/2010 7:42 am

Agree with Carolyn

It's how you come across as a person ... how you describe yourself ... what you look for in a person ... the whole package is more important than a silly handle


It's better to smile and have dimples
than to frown and have wrinkles

Poetdancerin
8920 posts 

8/27/2010 7:45 am

However .....

trustfundbabywannabe

does sound a bit silly

But you don't have to take my word for it


It's better to smile and have dimples
than to frown and have wrinkles

debutanteBaltimr
17977 posts 

8/27/2010 11:14 am

    Quoting ndpendentlady44:
    I don't think it's the handle that grabs attention, I think it's the photo.
GOOD point. I need to find a pic of a handsome male body builder to replace my pic with and then watch the number of views climb!

HuzatKrazyLONG -edMayne???

debutanteBaltimr
17977 posts 

8/27/2010 11:15 am

    Quoting Poetdancerin:
    Agree with Carolyn

    It's how you come across as a person ... how you describe yourself ... what you look for in a person ... the whole package is more important than a silly handle

Wow! That's a LOT of work! My profile doesn't say much...just a bunch of in there right now.

HuzatKrazyLONG -edMayne???

debutanteBaltimr
17977 posts 

8/27/2010 11:16 am

    Quoting Poetdancerin:
    However .....

    trustfundbabywannabe

    does sound a bit silly

    But you don't have to take my word for it

Well...I AM a bit silly, though...

HuzatKrazyLONG -edMayne???

debutanteBaltimr
17977 posts 

8/27/2010 11:18 am

    Quoting Whazzup777:
    trustfundbabywannabe! Floored twice today! Happy Friday, Renee!

    When I chose my handle(screenname) I just wanted to ask a question.

    What is up, God?

    A picture is not the real reason I am drawn to a specific post or a profile. I like REAL people.
Who is Renee?

HuzatKrazyLONG -edMayne???

sensouslady419
2474 posts 

8/27/2010 12:24 pm

For me ..the pic and how you descrive yourself and what you are looking in a possible mate..

*Seduce the mind, the body succumbs willingly*

debutanteBaltimr
17977 posts 

8/28/2010 10:30 am

    Quoting sensouslady419:
    For me ..the pic and how you descrive yourself and what you are looking in a possible mate..
That gives me a complete zero!

HuzatKrazyLONG -edMayne???

debutanteBaltimr
17977 posts 

8/28/2010 10:33 am

    Quoting Whazzup777:
    That is PoetDancerins' Name, isn't it? If I am wrong, MY BAD>
Oh! THAT explains it then.

HuzatKrazyLONG -edMayne???

Ari_fairy
20642 posts 

8/28/2010 12:07 pm

Balty....your pic is terrific...even though I'm not in to long hair on men.

As for your question...the only time a handle gets my attention is when it is clearly sexual (which totally turns me off), or contains a message that implies you'd be hurtful. I also don't care about pictures. I glanced at the people who viewed me today and noted one man had Fonzie's picture up. Pictures lie...and even when they are honest, tell me nothing about the person.

I want to see the person under the skin. I want to see the heart. I don't do searches because what I want to know about the people I get to know...is more likely to be on the magazine or the blogs. I want to know who they really are.

So...if you are looking for views...go with the picture. If you are looking for friends...be who you are on the blogs. You are a pretty interesting person without anything else.

Feel the passion, walk in peace, live in love....Ari

Ari_fairy
20642 posts 

8/28/2010 12:10 pm

By the way...do I owe you apologies for my comments on your other post?

Feel the passion, walk in peace, live in love....Ari

debutanteBaltimr
17977 posts 

8/28/2010 6:26 pm

    Quoting Ari_fairy:
    Balty....your pic is terrific...even though I'm not in to long hair on men.

    As for your question...the only time a handle gets my attention is when it is clearly sexual (which totally turns me off), or contains a message that implies you'd be hurtful. I also don't care about pictures. I glanced at the people who viewed me today and noted one man had Fonzie's picture up. Pictures lie...and even when they are honest, tell me nothing about the person.

    I want to see the person under the skin. I want to see the heart. I don't do searches because what I want to know about the people I get to know...is more likely to be on the magazine or the blogs. I want to know who they really are.

    So...if you are looking for views...go with the picture. If you are looking for friends...be who you are on the blogs. You are a pretty interesting person without anything else.
79 views since I put this new shit up but you are right. My pics don't count for much and I AM shit. Yeah funny how we all got our own tastes when it comes to . I think most chix don't care for long on men, but it was very kind of you to compliment my amature photo. I admidt that I prefer long, straight dark on women but some guys go ape over short -ed girls like Marilyn Monroe.

HuzatKrazyLONG -edMayne???

debutanteBaltimr
17977 posts 

8/28/2010 6:30 pm

    Quoting Ari_fairy:
    By the way...do I owe you apologies for my comments on your other post?
Nah. I LOVE how your feedbax caught fire on that post and how you got him to post more feedbax and then how you came back with even more! I wish I could come up with a topic that would generate THAT kind of action more often.

HuzatKrazyLONG -edMayne???

roshni70
2592 posts 

8/28/2010 9:57 pm

What a crazy thing to have happened to your photo.......

debutanteBaltimr
17977 posts 

8/29/2010 12:24 am

    Quoting roshni70:
    What a crazy thing to have happened to your photo.......
Yeah...just wait until NEXT year!

HuzatKrazyLONG -edMayne???

Ari_fairy
20642 posts 

8/29/2010 12:27 am

    Quoting debutanteBaltimr:
    79 views since I put this new shit up but you are right. My pics don't count for much and I AM shit. Yeah funny how we all got our own tastes when it comes to . I think most chix don't care for long on men, but it was very kind of you to compliment my amature photo. I admidt that I prefer long, straight dark on women but some guys go ape over short -ed girls like Marilyn Monroe.
I actually don't have short hair anymore. I've let it grow out for the past eight months and it's about to the base of my shoulder blades...which means long cause my hair is curly and shrinks about four inches as it dries. Course...you don't like red hair...or curly hair....dang your luck....

Feel the passion, walk in peace, live in love....Ari

debutanteBaltimr
17977 posts 

8/29/2010 2:57 am

    Quoting Ari_fairy:
    I actually don't have short hair anymore. I've let it grow out for the past eight months and it's about to the base of my shoulder blades...which means long cause my hair is curly and shrinks about four inches as it dries. Course...you don't like red hair...or curly hair....dang your luck....
Hey if I did decide I wanted YOUR , I STILL couldnt get it 'cause YOU like short on men...and NO Samson and delilah tale here as I already told (Can't remember her name right now) in her blog.

HuzatKrazyLONG -edMayne???

debutanteBaltimr
17977 posts 

8/29/2010 3:06 am

    Quoting debutanteBaltimr:
    Hey if I did decide I wanted YOUR , I STILL couldnt get it 'cause YOU like short on men...and NO Samson and delilah tale here as I already told (Can't remember her name right now) in her blog.
Dana54was who I was trying to remember. She posted that if she won the lottery that she would propose to me and I would cut my on the wedding night. I told her she could keep her lottery winnings. I love my own more than money...AND I am NOT a fortune hunter. Just joking on both sides about the lottery winnings and the marraige proposal of course.

HuzatKrazyLONG -edMayne???

JKH_54
208 posts 

9/6/2010 9:02 am

Your personality is revealed through your words here. That's what is important.

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